Selenite (original poster new member #87365) posted at 10:20 AM on Tuesday, July 7th, 2026
Im really struggling with not thinking about the affair partner and what happened, to make things worse I went into town last week and went to get a coffee and she was in the coffee shop and looked right at me (she doesn't know who I am or what I look like luckily) I was shaking it was awful and then today I've just been into town again and saw her again in the shop and then I quickly left the shop and then saw her again in the same coffee shop now I am raging it's like I can't get a break and have to be reminded by seeing her. Then I think I will just have to avoid that coffee shop but then I think why the fuck should I have to avoid places I like because of her and my husband it's not my fault yet I'm being punished! it's so frustrating. Sorry just needed to vent! Im trying to reconcile but it's so hard when I keep getting reminded of it!
