Discarded after nearly 30 years
Deep breath in, out slow.
My(m50) STBX(f45) is aware of this site, but I'm pretty confident she won't show her face around here.
The wayward side would 2x4 her into oblivion.
A quick summary...
After 28.5 years of marriage, 4 adult children, and 1 grandchild, my wife abruptly left after an argument and went to our daughters home and cut all contact except for cryptic texts about stalkers and being monitored.
A month later she agrees to talk to me, but insists it happens at our home, her phone is being monitored and someone is stalking her. She confesses to rampant cheating with members of both sexes, throughout our marriage, one on Facebook live about 5 year ago (it has since been deleted, I did not see or know of it till this point).
I kicked her out. My children were made aware, they turned their backs.
She cut all contact, again, and reconnected with horrible and dysfunctional group of poeple I had made her cut ties with back in 2014. One of them convicted for trying to hire a hitman to kill someone (it was an undercover detective) and he did 5 years in prision where he contracted genital herpes and 8 years supervised release. This was a big reason for me to demand she cut ties with them.
She then rebounds with the convicted felon, moved hundreds of miles away with these people, smeared me on social media and seems content with the world.
During all of this and cleaning up the mess she left behind to go find herself, I have learned she has a warrant for dui, no papers (she lost them in the dui crash) a suspended license, no capacity to gain employment, no money, no phone just an internet tablet, and no car of her own, living in a house with five other adults including the convict boyfriend with little to no income and no jobs between them.
Why do people put so much on facebook?
Our children and myself, knowing her history, believe this was a manic break or a bpd break.
Its been 71 days since the first time she left for a month, 45 days since she confessed and I knicked her out. 2 weeks of no contact.
There is so much more but I still have trouble organizing thoughts.
How was your summer?
Edited for grammar and spelling.
0 comment posted: Tuesday, August 25th, 2026
