nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 5:46 PM on Saturday, March 1st, 2025
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
Justsomeguy (original poster member #65583) posted at 4:28 PM on Sunday, March 2nd, 2025
I'm an oulier in my positions.
Me:57 STBXWW:55 DD#1: false confession of EA Dec. 2016. False R for a year.DD#2: confessed to year long PA Dec. 2 2017 (was about to be outed)Called it off and filed. Denied having an affair in court papers.
Divorced
nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 5:39 PM on Sunday, March 2nd, 2025
Your last post indicated a hacker made it to NB - I was just wondering what that meant/what happened?
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
Justsomeguy (original poster member #65583) posted at 9:21 PM on Sunday, March 2nd, 2025
Oh,I was referring to the recent hacker attack. I didn't think the guy made posts all the way down in NB as I hadn't seen any. I always think of NB as the least visited part of SI. I guess you have to work your way through the other categories before you arrive here. And those take years...
I'm an oulier in my positions.
Me:57 STBXWW:55 DD#1: false confession of EA Dec. 2016. False R for a year.DD#2: confessed to year long PA Dec. 2 2017 (was about to be outed)Called it off and filed. Denied having an affair in court papers.
Divorced
nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 6:05 AM on Monday, March 3rd, 2025
Ahhh. Got it. I never understand why people insist on being a menace!!
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
Justsomeguy (original poster member #65583) posted at 9:40 PM on Friday, April 18th, 2025
Well, the warm weather has finally arrived and I thought I'd give an update. Again, this thread is mostly for me, but I hope that it helps the occasional BS see what the other side can look like, mistakes and all.
The kids are good. My youngest got a new job and is doing well at it. She just had some oral surgery and is recovering well. My older daughter just got accepted into a trades program and will be starting her first year in a few weeks. She was hired by a company who will pay for her program. Both still live with me and will probably not leave for years. I like having them around.
I just cleaned my rooftop balcony and moved all my plants out. It is one of my favourite places to be. It is completely private with a chair, double lounger, and plants everywhere. I spend almost every nice day out here. I think I might add a hummingbird feeder this year and maybe some solar mini lights.
My buddy and I booked a campervan for a week this summer, so we plan on tooling around the south eastern part of BC together. It will be fun to just hang out together. We sometimes joke about retiring together as we get on so well. Maybe buy a 3 bedroom house in a small town and find some peace.
It's been 14 months single for me, and I can honestly say I am not the least bit interested in dating. Maybe I'm too lazy or maybe I just don't want the chaos in my life. I just like things as they are. Things are just easier this way.
So, anyway, that's my update. Hope everyone is well, at least as well as one can be given our journeys.
I'm an oulier in my positions.
Me:57 STBXWW:55 DD#1: false confession of EA Dec. 2016. False R for a year.DD#2: confessed to year long PA Dec. 2 2017 (was about to be outed)Called it off and filed. Denied having an affair in court papers.
Divorced
icytoes ( member #79512) posted at 10:52 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2025
Congratulations to you and your kids. There is something so satisfying watching young adult children get jobs and take steps to learn new skills. I am happy for you.
My hummingbird feeder has been a real source of joy for me, I love watching these tiny, beautiful creatures come and sit peacefully for a few moments as they drink their fill. I would never have put one up, but fortunately the previous owners had left one with instructions and I have been faithfully filling it for many years. I am looking forward to the hummingbirds return any day now.
Enjoy your campervan holiday. The Pacific Northwest is so beautiful. I hope you will tell us about your trip when you get back.
Formerpeopleperson ( member #85478) posted at 11:43 PM on Thursday, April 24th, 2025
Hummingbirds, peacefully?
You must have a different species. Ours spend more time chasing each other away like idiots than they do feeding!
It’s never too late to live happily ever after
icytoes ( member #79512) posted at 12:03 AM on Friday, April 25th, 2025
That’s interesting. I’ve never seen more than one hummingbird at a time come to our feeder. They seem to flit about in the trees about 30 feet away and then come over to take a sip one at a time.
